Monday, July 27, 2009

the new sex scorecard artilce

The New Sex Scorecard article

The article is about men and women and their differences. Most of the time we compare one another according to our appearance, and what we can and cannot do. Based on the article, they have sited few things how men and women are very much unlike.
Men and women are different thinkers, depending on the experience, and the world around them. On what I have read men are more likely to be logic thinkers. Men are good at solving things, doing tasks, they analyze. Men are more on the cognitive side of the brain. Women are more on the intuitive side. Women are good at people reading, gifted in detecting feelings and thoughts of others. Women are emotionally attached. Women like to talk often and doing best in public speaking.
Another example as to compare men to women is men are good in navigating directions instead of telling them where it is verbally, while women are good in landmarks, pointing where to go. As a student I believe it depends on the situation and how well a person understands each other. Directions are not that easy.
Depression is one of the common things that men and women are alike. It also depends on the situation, I learned from the article that women are worse to be depressed because we take so long to move on and forget about the problem. We tend to think about it over and over again. Men get depressed to but takes a short time to overcome it. Men drink late hours, do other curricular activities to forget while women stay at home and eat.
As the article said ‘’Nothing unites men and women better that sex’’. As a young student, based on what I watch in movies or in series they make love for fun, to get together. On the article women only have sex when they are ready or in love and when they get married. Men often do it for fun, some to get score by women not by emotion. Making love is often a mistake. It can break relationships, even marriages. Men cannot resist the temptation of making love. Both sexes tend to do it with others even if they have a partner because of the different satisfaction given to them. But time changes and people change so do men and women.
From what I understood, and based on the people around me men and women are the same but acts differently according to situations and what they feel like doing. In summary, both makes mistakes, men and women get depressed, both thinks accurately and how well they easily understand, both can make happy or unhappy marriages, they have same urges to date others except with their partner, etc. With these facts people can learn from it and discover why we act like this. And as a student I will be able to understand myself more on my body and my attitudes. Differences does not only come from what we see but with where we come from, what genes did we get from our parents, from our lolos’ and lolas’, and it only passed on to us. But it is up to us as well to make it right.

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