Mind Reading
Every person has its own way of telling things. It is either by action, or by words. Communicating verbally is not all easy to do most people tend to say things without hesitation. They say things that aren’t easy to understand that they make it difficult for person to understand. Otherwise communicating verbally takes also effort and understanding. Communicating nonverbally meaning using only facial expressions, attitudes, how people act among other people. It is hard to act as if there is nothing wrong or something is bothering us. It is also hard to keep quiet where everything is ok and people tend to ask you what it is. It is better to stay shut and show emotion with people whom you know.
Mind reading is not easy depending on the situation and the action of the person is doing. Mind reading is analyzing and understanding a person for his/ her way of communicating. Like children or as babies they understand their elderly by staring at them watching their mouths with how they speak, eavesdropping, body language. And babies react as to crying or shouting to have what they want. As adults we stare and analyze the person we are talking to and or seeing someone we know how they act and speak. For example if I see a friend crying or desperately sad I know as a friend that there is something wrong but already knowing that you have to get deeper what is really behind it all. As the friend I know everything about her and when she cries I give her a moment to calm down to rest and that is where I come in and talk about it. Another example street children once they come to your door and puts his or her hand on you window you know that he or she wants something either money or food. We can read minds with their action. As a parent they know what a child wants for their children. In need of food, comfort, love and as well as material stuff. As quoted in the article “is a critical human skill. It's the way we make sense of other people's behaviour and decide on our own next moves.” Meaning it also depends on the reaction or the feedback of the person whom you are communicating to. We decide what we want to say and what language we use to communicate back or if we care or not. This also helps us to understand better the emotional, physical problem of the person; sad, happy, depressed, tired, etc. But sometimes we tend to hurt other people because we can tell how everything is going to be said and done. All this can be based not on the culture but how we react on a certain problem. Most countries also have different perception on how they see things with nonverbal communication. We have the same attitude on how we react on the communicator.
Mind reading is also considered as a sixth sense because we already know the feeling without asking the person what is wrong. Senses are the answer because we are all human beings we feel the same so we know if the person is confused, unhappy. We define the facial expressions of the person and their body language. It all depends on how they speak with high tone or low peach voice on their gestures how they move their arms, body and how the facial expressions change to one emotion to another. We must know our limitation with using communication skills.
Based on my perception we do the same, we understand the same we must carefully learn more on how they think and we should think before we speak. And we know that no matter how you hide you emotion people can still see it and feel at the same time. But with understanding each other instantly we can also help one another by showing we care and staying by their side.
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